The Difference Between Being Needy, Being Needed & Being Of Service

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the past eleven month, since this year of increasing authentic expression in the human collective has begun, there have been many astral events in the universe teaching us profound details about the creation of human relationships in the Golden Age of Aquarius. For those human beings, who are interested in a loving family, community building or deep personal love relations, this was a year of great chances to try out our spiritual concepts, in manifesting more of our true authentic self in new relations.
The upcoming year 2018 is caring the vibration of a numerology year 11, which is not only a master number, but also resonates with the number 2 – the vibration of co-operation and balance. For all of us that means, that the coming year will unfold even more fired up with creation and manifestation power, for our
personal and collective awakening path. 

Many people who are walking a spiritual path are aware by now, that true relationships can only be build in a climate of equality, mutual respect and true interest to understand another. But what about needing the other?
Over the past years of working with people and their personal emotions, I encountered many who understood the ancient teachings for human awakening as a form of being totally independent and free of commitment, and that this equals being a strong individual. Personally my experience is different.
While I totally agree that taking absolute responsibility for our own emotional body creates space for true encounter, and allows us to feel clear and strong as beings so we are not needy for the other and clingy in our energy, I also found that peacefully being human includes needing another. In my self-studies I further discovered a deep need to be of help and service for others. This is a need which comes directly from the source of my soul, it is one of the most profound urges I ever experienced, and I know for sure that I am not the only one who feels that way.
So my conclusion is, that while the human soul does not react well to relationships we consciously or unconsciously building in order to profit from the other, it does react very well to needing one another for the sake of being of service to our beloved ones and the community we live in.

All people have a natural desire to be needed, to have their importance to others tangibly confirmed.
Daisaku Ikeda

Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.
Adam S. McHugh

We are unhappy because we think that love is something we require from someone else.
Arthur Japin

They say that people are innately afraid of those who need them, they say that people are afraid of “clingy-ness”, afraid of attachment, afraid of being needed by another. But I beg to disagree. I believe that people, when looking at someone who is needy of them, see themselves and see their own fears and they go away because they can’t handle those fears; it’s their own neediness that they’re afraid of! They’re afraid to want and to need, because they’re afraid of loss and of losing, so when they see these things in another, that’s when they run away. Nobody is actually running away from other people; everybody is really running away from themselves!
C. JoyBell C.

It wasn’t as if she’d thought it through or anything, how what a person wanted wasn’t always what they needed, and what a person needed might be the last thing they could ever want.
Shannon Celebi

What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.
Saint Augustine

This is the true joy in life: Being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one, being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.
George Bernard Shaw

But I have seen the best of you and the worst of you, and I choose both. I want to share every single one of your sun shines and save them for later. I will tuck them into my pockets so I can give them back to you when the rain falls hard. Friend, I want to be the mirror that reminds you to love yourself. I want to be the air in your lungs that reminds you to breath. When the walls come down, when the thunder rumbles, when nobody else is home, hold my hand, and I promise I won’t let go.
Sarah KayDear Ones, the Golden Age of Aquarius will appear for all beings in the collective, when we are ready to live in balance and harmony with all forces inside and outside of us, and that includes needing another as well as being independent. Take some time to feel into your personal details on this, and I am sure you will figure it out soon enough :-).
Love and Blessings!!

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What Entrepreneurs And Millennials Gain From Their Alternative Lifestyles

1Dear Friends,
nearly a year ago, I shared with you an article from the author and entrepreneur Gustavo Tanaka, in witch he talked about the changes we can currently watch in our world, the creation of new life styles and life choices that lead to higher life quality. He pointed out that one thing changing now, is: “The fall of exaggerated consumerism. For too long, we’ve been manipulated to consume as much as we possibly can. To buy every new product launched, the newest car, the latest iPhone, the top brands, lots of clothes, shoes, lots and lots and lots of pretty much anything we could get our hands on.
Low-consumerism, slow life and slow food are a few excerpts of actions being taken as we speak, pointing out by contradiction how absurdly we have come to organize ourselves. Fewer people are using cars, fewer people are overspending, and more people are swapping clothes, buying used goods, sharing assets, cars, apartments, offices. We don’t need all of that they told us we needed. And this consciousness of new consumerism can take down any company living on the exaggerated end of it”.

Now, nearly one year later, I ran into this two articles that explain to us what it is that people are seeking these days, if they choose to leave their comfortable homes and carriers, to give a different life style and value system a chance for life!

This is an extract  from the article “How Millennials Are Finding Purpose (and a Better Life) in Guatemala” by Jenn Miller:
Our adolescence didn’t play out across the backdrop of the Great Recession. Most of us could still, realistically, expect to get a job when we graduated from university. A perk not enjoyed by the Millennial crowd. So, what’s a young person to do? Stuck in the middle of an economic and social quagmire, with a job market that is less than booming for recent graduates, faced with the prospect of living in a childhood bedroom for an extra decade? This generation might be guilty of a lot of things, but settling for the status quo isn’t one of them. Digital natives, their lives flow fluidly between the analog and the digital in ways that those of us less than a decade beyond them often envy, if we’re being honest. They’re on the cutting edge of everything, or they could be, from politics to the religious revolution, to what it means to create community.

The Innocents Abroad:
Guatemala is a place near and dear to my heart. I spend rather a lot of time there. Winters, six months at a time. A month this spring, holding back rainy season with the force of my sunshiny attitude alone. I’m not above a two-week trip, but that would just be enough to make me homesick when I had to leave. Driving through is always an adventure; you should try it sometime. One of the things that has percolated into my consciousness over a years-long love affair with the country is the number of Millennials who are living there. The question is why?pThe Gap Year Crowd:
There’s the Gap Year crowd, blowing through with a checklist in hand, comparing notes over beers in my friend’s hostel of an evening. They’re fresh-faced. Their backpacks are clean. They’re wide-eyed and gushy about all of the wonderful places they’ve been and what they’ve seen. Many of them, for the first time, are realizing that there’s life beyond school, options beyond an office work environment, and ways of living other than the one they encountered growing up behind the white picket fences of middle America.
“For Millennials, growing up as the first generation of digital natives, jacked into the matrix since before they could walk, encountering the analog world, in places without ubiquitous connection, is an awakening.” It’s the discovery of another kind of community building and a tactile learning experience. These young people come to Guatemala to breathe in the color and exhale experience. They come seeking ceremonies, cacao, nahual, drum circles and kirtan; hell, sometimes just a rousing round of karaoke therapy among strangers who are friends. They come seeking truths that weren’t found in their textbooks and connection of a deeper sort.

The Longer-Term Travelers:
And then there are the longer-term travelers, the ones out “finding themselves” for a bit. Studying as they go, volunteering a bit, living on the cheap while they figure out where the road is leading. These tend to be the middle Millennials, late twenties to thirtyish. Maybe they worked a while in the real world and became disillusioned. Maybe their advanced degree landed them nothing more than a barista job and they began to wonder, “Is this all there is?” These are young people with ambition and energy who want lives that will truly matter. They’re the ones who took a look at the treadmill of the office world and couldn’t quite make themselves fall in line.
The ways they support themselves are fascinatingly diverse. They trade hours for lodging in hostels and hotels. They play music. They teach lessons. They work online. They save furiously to earn their freedom and then they turn up in the highlands of Guatemala, bringing all of the bright energy of youth and their creativity to bear on building something beautiful, serving in ways that matter to them, and making it last as long as they can.
These are young people who are living up to the Millennial reputation for insisting on work-life balance and on work that is satisfying to the soul as well as the pocketbook. Does this make them lazy? Is opting out of the traditional route, and living barefoot in a highland village on ten bucks a day instead a red flag for lack of ambition? No. I’d argue the choice has more to do with idealism, and a passion for making a difference, and using their talents (creative and otherwise) to their best end, and nothing at all to do with laziness.aThis is an extract  from the article “I left corporate life behind, to live in a camper van” by Vanessa Runs:
That first year in the RV was like a vacation. Both of us overworked and under-stimulated, we drove from San Diego to Alaska, across Canada, then back down the East coast. And for the next two years, we did our favorite parts all over again. We own two bowls, two spoons and two forks. We wash our dishes with creek water. My husband goes fishing for our breakfast. I walk a lot. I seek solitude like a junkie seeks crack. I sleep extravagantly.
The miles have been kind to me. I’ve known hummingbirds as friends, holding their tiny pulsing bodies in the palm of my hand. I often waste an entire day reading. I can sneak up on a squirrel. I live and write offline. The sunsets slip by one after the other, and I am sentenced to watch them quietly, without reaching for a selfie. I tuck these moments away in my heart where they fester into a messy sort of love. I have learned that I don’t need to possess things in order to love them. I have learned that most people are not like me. I have learned that many people are exactly like me. I have learned that security is a myth.

I have faith not so much in the positive outcome of things, but more strongly in my own ability to endure everything. There will always be times of trouble and I will always survive them. I am good at making jokes in the dark places. I am good at suffering. I am good at loss. Today I went to see the Gila Cliff Dwellings in New Mexico. Seven hundred years ago, Mogollon natives inhabited these caves. I walked where they walked. I saw where they ate and drank and slept. I looked out of their windows and saw the same views they would have seen.
I’ll probably never have a 401K, but I have some trout from the stream and there’s enough to share with you, too, should you drop by. I have fresh water from the mountain and an extra mug of coffee. I have a little bit of bread, some wine in my mason jar, and a messy sort of love for you.
And everything is going to be okay.bird4


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The Divine Color Rays Most Active In Our Collective Awakening

oby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the last few month you heard me repeatedly talking about the increased support that is in the air, transmitted from the Realms of the  Ascended Masters, and reachable for so many for the first time right now. I shared a post explaining how the Masters send out information, energetic waves and their higher frequencies, thru the highways of sound and light, and how that has an impact on human life on earth. We looked into the power of transformation that the inner fire of alchemy is holding for us, and how our breathing is the key to master this alchemical process. As we change layer by layer, and transform our momentary state of being – into a higher vibrating version of our TRUE SELF, we manifest more and more light into our physical body and become the shining lights we always have been. The Ascended Master Apollonius of Tyanan showed us the way, how to raise our vibration of the physical bodies DNA strands!
Than the last few days there have been so many Angelic Messages, Number Sequences, Synchronicity and repetitions of numbers that appeared, since the intense energies of the Virgo Full Moon, that today it is time to collect information on the divine highways of light; the divine color rays of manifestation; that are the most active for us these days.
For the ones who are not familiar with this term jet, we are talking about the seven colors of the inner wheels of divine creation, the inner rainbow light of the chakra system in the physical body. Each of the seven rays represents the acceptance, perfection and completion of a particular aspect in our personal Christ Consciousness – the I AM awareness. On our individual path of self-mastery, the frequencies transmitted from this rays, combined with the awareness of their meaning, can propeller our growth quickly into exhilaration. We are all great spiritual beings, powerful and deserving of our own awakening and ascension. Use your power to create exactly the life you want on planet earth!!

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Masters of the First Divine Ray: The Blue Ray
Is the Chohan (the Leader) of the first divine ray. He is also chief of the Darjeeling Council and of the Great White Brotherhood. El Morya represents courage, focus, certainty, power, forthrightness, self-reliance, dependability, self-responsibility, faith and divine action. All attributes a human being emotionally identifies with the Father principle, the energy of an authentic leader, a judge or a king – human archetypes, human reality and internal qualities of a true spiritual warrior.

Immaculata is holding the divine blueprint of life, from which constantly the pattern of perfection and creation for the Golden Age of Aquarius on our planet and for all her attendants flows. It is her service to watch over the human race and guard individuals as well as groups of people, to follow the DIVINE HIGHER WILL.kuthumimMasters of the Second Divine Ray: The Golden Ray
is our current World Peace Teacher, a member of the Great White Brotherhood of Masters and representative of the Golden Age of Aquarius, the Earth plane of unconditional love, peace and a brotherhood of men.

is a master of the power of precipitation—the alchemical process of drawing forth cosmic light and substance from the universal substance and bringing it into physical form. The power tool of Master Lanto is the “mighty transcendent golden flame of illumination”, located in the Himalaya mountains.

is known as The Enlightened Being or The Buddha, and was the founder of Buddhism in India. The Buddha can help us to energetically translate, transform and clarify inner energies to higher vibrations. His light has an impact on all levels of our spiral dance of creation (what we call past – present and future).

is  a member of the Spiritual Hierarchy of Shamballa, closely connected with the Mayan Civilization. Kenich Ahan is the patron protector for all Mayan People and students of the spiritual path. He is Mayan sun god, patron of the creations of music and poetry and is the son of “Hunab Ku” –  the “Great Central Spiritual Sun “.

is a loving source of assistants for each of us, who calls him into his awareness. His message: it is easier to learn how to shield our awareness, than to clear our energetic field from disharmonious thoughts and feelings of the world, once they entered our conciseness.mmMasters of the Seventh Divine Ray: The Violet Ray
is the master alchemist of the sacred inner fire, who carries the flame of the violet fire for us. This inner fire provides us with the ability to transform, transmute, elevate and shift every emotional pattern inside of us, into higher vibration and devotion to express divine purity.

is known as the Goddess of Justice and Opportunity, but even more important she is the Ascended Master of Initiation to the next level of higher vibration. She represents the quality of divine justice – the execution of the Divine / Hermetic Laws on planet earth. She is the twin flame of Saint Germain on the Seventh Ray of Transformation, Freedom and Transmutation.

is known as the Goddess of Mercy. Her divine qualities are compassion, kindness, fertility, health and magic. She is patron of the children and of the helpless here on earth. In China she is also known as the great mercy, great pity, salvation from misery, salvation from woe, and the Goddess of thousand arms and thousand eyes.jjDear Ones, I hope you feel encouraged and inspired to make your contact with the divine light within you!! That you are brave this year, when the energies of the universe again decide to turn our world many times upside down!!! I hope you find strength and support with the Masters energy field and always remember “you deserve to walk this life in the ease and blessings of your I AM presence”!! Keep breathing deeply, and taking in all the divine blessings that come now as harvest of our work into manifestation!
Blessings an Courage ;-)! Edith

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The Collective Awakening to Ancient Wisdom & The Sun God Kenich Ahau

eby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,

the last few days I talked a lot about the deep desire for tribal gathering, community building and soul mate reunions that is imprinted in the soul of so many, who are consciously part of the creation of the Golden Age of Humanity. I shared insides about the development of emotional intelligence, which will allow us big leaps in consciousness on collective level, and today when I asked my personal guides for insides about this days blessings the Ascended Master Kenich Ahau appeared. The Sunshine of the world and representative of divine victory over all darkness.

Kenich Ahau is an Ascended Master from the Second Gold Ray of Wisdom, Illumination and Divine Intelligence. He is  a member of the Spiritual Hierarchy of Shamballa, closely connected with the Mayan Civilization. Kenich Ahan is the patron protector for all Mayan People and students of the spiritual path. His etheric field is on planet earth anchored in the area of Uxmal, Mexico. Kenich Ahau is by the Mayan Culture also known as “Kinich Ahan” or “Lord of the Solar Eye”. He is Mayan sun god, patron of the creations of music and poetry and is the son of “Hunab Ku” –  the “Great Central Spiritual Sun “.

The name “Kenich Ahan” comes from the words: “Kin,” which means “Sun”; “Ich” which means “face”; and “Ahan” meaning “Priest”. In short, it means: “The Priest Solar Face.” Therefore, currently he continues his work assisting all students spiritual efforts. Some Masters, as the Master Saint Germain, instruct solving situations through the transmutation of the Violet Fire; Lady Rowena, through Love; and Kenich Ahau, through creative intelligence. His energetic field provides excess to supreme divine wisdom, higher consciousness, and activates higher level in our inner process of ascension.hKenich Ahan is in appearance a Mayan King with perfect features, an Atlantean descendant of exquisite beauty, of great stature, robust and strongly built, almost Nordic skin, blond hair and surrounded with a golden aura. He is a force to connect with, if you desire to strengthen your I AM Christ awareness, or the radiance of your golden inner light.

I think light, I feel light, I’m breathing light!!
I let the divine light pulsate through me.
I am the light!
Its as simple as that!!

Connecting ourselves to the sacred value of the metal “gold”, provides for human beings the qualities of inner radiation, stronger physical health, and many divine blessings of success. When gold is used in ceremonies and services of the Spiritual Hierarchy, without contamination of human will, it is an element of protection for the beings present in the circle. “ Like every being, Kenich Ahau has a sound – a paticular vibration – by which he can be recognized, which is the well familiar song “Greensleaves “. This is a very old traditional English folk song. Rumor has it, it was captured by Henry VIII, who as gallant and amorous, presented it to his future second wife, Anne Boleyn, as a song of love. For us it is the chance to listen to the vibration of his radiant divine light body.
As ancient field of divine love and light Kenich Ahau has the capacity to bring back indigenous wisdom and ancient knowledge, stored in our DNA. And that is the field where he is most active right now. In the unfolding of the old ways of tribal living, in respect to nature, to our community, each other and most of all, authentic respect to our own truth.d
Dear Ones, I hope you found inspiration and assistance in this information to create your own strong connection, with the Ascended Master Kenich Ahua. That you feel called to shine oyur bright inner sun into the world, and that his radiant energetic field will be of assistance on your way. I wish you blissful and radiant interactions and lots of light for the Golden Age of Aquarius!!!
Blessings, Gratitude and Love

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The Gathering Of The Tribes & Community in San Marcos La Laguna

maxresdefaultby Edith Boyer-Telmer
Dear Friends,
over the last few month I have shared information and insides how the collective awakening into the Golden Age of Aquarius will transform our Paradigms for Community Living and gathering in Soul Tribe, as we planed by Soul Contracts. In the last two days I posted that the time has come for the tribes to unite and how it is on us to develop the emotional intelligence needed to succeed. If you follow my posts regularly, than you also know by now about my second home San Marcos La Laguna, Solola Guatemala. A place where international traveler gather, many foreigner have found a second home, and the locals are from the very humble and gentle Kaqchickel tribe. A mix that allows us all intense cultural exchange and deep learning from another.
And of course such a merging of that many cultures, traditions and different worldview’s, is also filled with the challenges to truly listen to another, respect each others ways and seek to find common ground, that allows all groups involved to live their life authentically, peaceful and stress free. Over the past few month the resistance of the original town people against curtain culturally challenging behaviors has suddenly increased, and so it is time for us to step up, listen and learn from another again right now.
Being aware that this is truly the time where the doors of heavens one more time opened, to shower us with clarity and guidance for the new paradigms of community and tribal living, San Marcos is collectively spot on. We are also known as people with inspirational initiatives and so I was not surprised to find yesterday an invitation on facebook, to gather the beings in town for a speaking circle of Native American style, and see how far we can get this very moment in time. Read here the invitation, and the first steps for solution finding and better communication, the San Marcos crowd came up with!mujeres-con-sus-trajes-tradicionales-en-san-marcos-la-laguna_galeria_principal_size2
Dear San Marcos Family,
I am suggesting a ‘town gathering’ open to all who are willing to be a part. The tension regarding mutual respect between locals, imported residents and tourists has gotten out of hand. There are many who want to help, but don’t know how. Though I understand it’s not my place to take charge in this matter, as someone who cares for and wants to help build this beautiful community, I feel the need to at least try to organize people into an awareness of the issues at hand. A collaborative, non-heirarchal and genuine approach can help shape life for all present and future San Marcos stakeholders. Let’s get together so we can move together. I am suggesting perhaps Sunday afternoon. While I envision this meeting happening in the main square under the comfort of the great tree, I also see reasons that may be less than ideal. I am open to all advice and thank everyone in advance for your cares and concerns, hard work and dedication to unity.
Love you Marcosians, let’s chat.

Comment 1:
As a local and being part and understanding all the parties basically at some level, having gone for a week and just now hearing just the surface of the stuff that has been gong on, you can count on me for whatever is needed,Guatemala is a country of connections and if its for the good of our pueblo.. being resourceful could help.
Comment 2:
Yes, a real tricky subject. Is it Xenophobia and cultural conservatism? And what is the right balance between preserving cultures and being open to change? Is the new age more about allowing the clash of cultures to create a new openness? What is our/your/my role in bringing much needed change to the world we live in. Problems in this community has been described to me as Guatemalan resistance to progress. How do we create change without offense? Is it possible, or are revolutions by necessity violent or confrontational.
And what is progress? The grip of the Church, oppression of women, etc does present a conundrum. A fine balance, a razor’s edge exists between being true to yourself in spirit and respecting local custom. I know that preserving or learning from indigenous cultures and their closeness to nature is fundamental to planetary survival, and our new “hippy” culture largely carries those values, and the local customs are largely influenced by Catholic conservatism. A fine pickle we’re in. Takes some finesse to navigate this delicate balance.;
Comment 3:
I appreciate the vulnerability this community is willing to enter when I read this thread. Which to me, is an important aspect to be considered when a proposed town gathering , with the desire to hear , share, and come to better relationship and understanding, is at hand. I personally have no huge stake in San Marcos; I do have a large stake in the humans currently figuring out how to live together on this planet. To me this thread speaks to a universal need. I would love to see a gathering of this sort end with hugs and smiles, and most of all, with open hearts for all.
However, I feel personally afraid to attend , let alone speak, at a gathering with no facilitator. For the reason that in order for coherence and understanding to arise in a group, I believe there needs to be a strong and clear container for it. Perhaps someone would volunteer to facilitate who is experienced in these ways and is not directly involved with the issues? Someone who feels they can hold space for the container, for the dialogue? To call on people and summarize what has been said, to determine if breaks are needed, if something is off topic, etc. a space keeper entrusted with the stated mission and goals of such a town gathering. The goal stated that I see is for an organization of awareness of the issues at hand, with a theme of unity and peace. Perhaps the goal of this meeting could be to
a) come to shared understanding of the issues at hand and
b) come up with a goal for what future meetings would try to accomplish…. and possibly
c) determine a meeting structure to support future town meetings to happen.
I am in complete agreement with a collaborative, non-hierarchical and genuine approach to this meeting and hope that my comment here elaborates on one option to move in this
I attended circles that were fruitful, without hierarchy, people listening. An amazing experience. People sharing and listening. So I know it’s possible. I know how it can work. I know it is very hard to keep this kind of circle together. It would need a strong group of people facilitating such a circle here in this town. A spontaneous circle under the tree in the center cannot hold space for the ones who don’t have a loud voice. Whoever has knowledge of talking circles and feels it is possible to pull this off, I’ll help. Basic rules: only one person speaks at a time, everybody has a chance to speak and to be heard (one by one in a circle, no cross talk, wait your turn) speak from the heart, no judgements, no accusations.
Dear Ones, I hope this words are help and inspiration for you and more communities, to take their first steps on the way to unite the tribes again!! Sending Love and Blessings!!!

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New Paradigms for Leadership, Family Living & Community Building Emerge

posby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
we are approaching a period in the development of human kind, where relationships are ready to go through a major transformation. Daily more people realize that the current paradigm of being with each other, does not really work for human beings and needs to be adapted to the time we are living in. The divine forces have blessed us with intense light impulses during the whole month of December last year. A part of the collective impact we experienced is the cleansing of the human energy field from the thinking and behavior pattern of the first chakra.
This upgrade in frequency in the physical body of all beings on the planet, has an impact on how we experience love relationships, sexuality, territorial behavior, family or tribal bounds, and leadership.

In the new paradigm for romantic relationships, we will see more and more people choose their partner rather from a sense of purpose, inner guidance and soul connection, than practical reasons or pure sexual attraction. And when people decide to be together because they can feel a mutual soul contract, than the relationship is allowed to naturally strive rather than “function”. When the beings involved in a relationship are also individually committed truth seeker, than the partnership becomes a journey of evolution with endless potential for growth. And as human beings we need the feeling of inner growth, otherwise we loose the sense for fulfilling our soul’s purpose. This shift of awareness to the soul level of our connections, lifts us to a place where cooperation and collaboration are experienced as equally shared in responsibility and created from a place of ease.pTogether with this changes a relaxation settles into the interactions between the sexes, which leads us to more authentic and truthful communication. In the partners loving presence, we train to reveal our secrets in a profound emotional openness and a transformed feeling of solidarity. Within the new relationship paradigm, we also will see more couples who value growth more than anything else. And the ones who are wise, strive towards spiritual expansion, even at the risk of outgrowing the relationship within the process. That might be scary in times, but it also maintains a natural feeling of aliveness, freedom and loving energy-flow between the relationship partners.
Within the new paradigm for community living , clan members meet by soul calling, for the mutual reason of consciously supporting each others evolution process (and often as well the collective awakening). Everybody is committed to allow authentic expression, even if that means to be triggered in their beliefs systems. As we start building this conscious communities according to the divine blueprint for the Golden Age of Aquarius, we will see more and more guideline models arise, that include techniques from our ancestors in their toolbox.
From the talking circle to the conflict solving group meeting, from the healing tent to the transformation ritual, everyone is celebrating a comeback!! In growing groups of cultural expressions, like the so called “New Hippie Movement”, we can see the first alive models at work. And as our current society is a product of human concepts, not of divine will in this moment of time, it is on us to make all necessary steps for this alignments now. When the groups sharing also include the spiritual practices of total acceptance, being present with another, instant forgiveness and a commitment for allowing vulnerability, their communities will have the vibrations and feeling of a Sacred Space. A home where every member feels safe, welcome and appreciated to SIMPLE BE.po

And leadership, well that is shifting in peoples heads as well. When I was a child, impressive people in leading positions, pretty much scared the living daylight out of me. They where simple unapproachable!!  No warm feelings, no openness, there was nothing that mad me feel safe within the energy field they where radiating. Well, the natural born leader our collective awakening is now inviting to step up, will be human beings with the soul capacity to do a better job. A leader the awakening masses will identify as real now, is a being who naturally knows how to put the ego aside and truly care for others. Their communication skills will include the awareness, transparency and honesty, that are required to create an authentic relationship with others. Traits we should demand from our future authority figures like Politicians, Teacher, Doctors and Police officer!
A true leader also has to be able to co-operate and create with others on an energetically honest level, and with the focus on a win win situation. Doing so allows them to develop the ability to let others shine, without feeling threatened or attacked by their abilities. Anad a natural leader knows when to step in and give the collective a direction, and when to step back and let others do their part.

Dear Ones, i hope this little collection of insides has brought joy to your heart about the expected changes, maybe vibrated with some of the desires you are also caring in your soul, and invited you to even more spiritual growth in this magical year 2016. May the guidance of your higher-self sound loud and clear in your ear ;-), and lead you to the fulfillment of all of your hopes and dreams for community living, love relations and future leadership, that we actually can trust! I wish you inner peace and send blessings of love!

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The Buddha Path: Transforming Suffering into Peace, Joy, and Liberation

suryby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
have you ever heard of  the Buddhist Monk Thích Nhất Hạnh? Or let me rephrase that, you have heard of the Buddhist Master Thích Nhất Hạnh. His spiritual quotes, teachings and reports from life experiences, are all over the internet, social media and other places where spiritual awakened ones and seeker come together. He is a Zen Master, a global spiritual leader, a poet, an international peace activist and in his tradition he is considered a Living Buddha or Living Christ. Born  in 1926, he started teaching in his twenties and ever since, his life has since been dedicated to the work of inner transformation for the benefit of individuals and society. His teachings on mindfulness, on peace-making, on community-building in schools, workplaces, businesses and even prisons, has inspired millions of people by now.
Thích Nhất Hạnh’s key teaching is, that mindfulness is the gateway to be in the present moment and doorstep to truly develop peace, both in one’s self and in the world. For the collective awakening of humanity his sharing is more relevant than ever, as we have now entered the year of authentically putting the teachings we have received into actions, and find creative solutions from a place of wisdom. The many links in the text are there to show, how highly relevant his teachings of 60years are for us here and now!

Here are 20 of his famous quotes you might have heard before:
1.) “Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.
2.) “Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.”
3.) “When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That’s the message he is sending.”
4.)To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.”
files.php5.) “People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.”
Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything like – anger, anxiety, or possessions – we cannot be free.”

7.) “When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don’t blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce.
Yet if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce.
Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument. That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change”
8.) “People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a miracle. But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on water or in thin air, but to walk on earth. Every day we are engaged in a miracle which we don’t even recognize: a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the black, curious eyes of a child — our own two eyes. All is a miracle.”
9.)Because you are alive, everything is possible.”
10.)Walk as if you are kissing the Earth with your feet.”
11.)Smile, breathe and go slowly.”
12.)Breathing in, I calm body and mind. Breathing out, I smile. Dwelling in the present moment I know this is the only moment.”
13.) “The seed of suffering in you may be strong, but don’t wait until you have no more suffering before allowing yourself to be happy.”
namas14.) “Many people think excitement is happiness…. But when you are excited you are not peaceful. True happiness is based on peace.”
15.) “Waking up this morning, I smile. Twenty-four brand new hours are before me. I vow to live fully in each moment and to look at all beings with eyes of compassion.”
16.) “If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to him or her, that is not true love.”
17.) “You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.”
18.) “Through my love for you, I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity, and all beings. By living with you, I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth… This is the real message of love.”
19.) “My actions are my only true belongings.”
20.) “Our own life has to be our message.”

Dear Friends. I wish you an amazing day full of beautiful moments to give your inner Buddha a fist try out, and bring your truthful self into the world! Hope the quotes and included links give you lots of reading, study and contemplation material, to find your personal combination of self-love and practice!! May peace take over in each one of us, till it has spread enough to reach the critical mass of vibration, and leads us collectively into the Golden Age! Love and Peaceful Heart!

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Shifting an Angry World into a Paradigm of Inner Peace & Authentic Action

kkby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
this years amazing frequencies for the collective awakening of humanity, are on a run. The effects have kicked in quite immediately the clock all over the was shifting to the 1.1.2016, and of we went with the wind of change into the new paradigm of peaceful living, harmonious community building and wise decision making when it comes to our future creations and co-creation partners. In my post about the collective cleansing of the first chakra, I mentioned that anger and frustration are two of the feelings that will more and more change for us. The intensity of how some of us have experienced the impact of this emotions, is daily fading more and a chance arises to transform our old behavior pattern to more fitting expressions for the Golden Age.
In general anger is a big one to transform, as or body supports with full force, the idea to move forward with this feeling. When we get angry, the amygdala of the brain (the part that deals with emotion) is going crazy. That makes our physical bodies reaction kick in and it wants to do something about the situation – IMMEDIATELY. Within a blink of an eye, the adrenal glands flood the body with stress hormones, such as adrenaline, noradrenaline, and cortisolour, the blood flow increases, feelings of excitement and anxiety arise and your muscles get activated.
Our Anger sets of the natural ‘fight or flight response’ of in the body, we gear up strength to survive a wrong that’s been perpetrated against you. The brain shoots blood into our muscles, in preparation for a physical confrontation. And most importantly – the mind is sharpened and focused within the second!!!! Most important, because this is the split second that also allows us to STEP BACK and evaluate the moment!!! According to well documented scientific research, the neurological response to anger actually lasts less than two seconds. This is why many people picked up on the idea of counting to 10 when angry!!!1aAnd lets be clear on one thing, I don’t think that anger is wrong – or a feeling we ‘should not have’, indeed anger is part of life within a physical body. The naturally build in physical cues of anger alert us, that something needs to be done as the situation we are in, is unhealthy, harmful or deforming for our true self. The thing is just, that we are now inspired to manifest the Golden Age of Aquarius, and the way how we choose to express our anger – is from now on, key to leading the collective of humanity into mass awakening; the level of increase we achieve in our collective ability for problem solving; and on a spiritual level that means, everybody is even more responsible now, to deal with what ever anger issues are left in their system, till this world is ready to live in balance, harmony and a state of world peace!!! Already ~Marcus Aurelius, The Roman Emperor (26 April 121 – 17 March 180 AD) shared a similar few of us human beings and this world, by understanding the whole Universe as a single living being:

“Never forget that the universe is a single living organism possessed of one substance and one soul, holding all things suspended in a single consciousness and creating all things with a single purpose that they might work together spinning and weaving and knotting whatever comes to pass.”

We are still supposed to stand up and tell our offenders that the behavior they showed is inappropriate, incorrect or injustice in our eyes, in some cases even more than ever (governments, our food industry, the pharmaceutical industry, the animal rights, human rights), and we are invited to a new paradigm of communication. A time of honest expression, from a place of openness and vulnerability, that truly allows us to engage with another (even in situations of deep disagreement!!) and actively supports the union in all our human relationships and communities.huge.9.45562Many of you, who read my blog on a regular basis, are Indigo Children, Crystal Children, Empathic People or Highly Sensitive People, that is one of the reasons why you feel attracted to my work. What all of this people have in common is that they are naturally taking in all the problems in the world, which than can create a strong sense of injustice, frustration, anger and even resignation in them, as this are all feelings we are inhaling from a human collective of 7 billion people. And some of us are even called to fulfill their soul path that way. To rise above the impact, in order to be part of the conscious awakening team ;-). There is nothing in the world that can not be forgiven! In history many have walked that path before us, marking the way we now are called to journey together.

“Yes, I was angry. And I was a little afraid. After all I’ve not been free in so long. But, when I felt that anger well up inside of me, I realized that if I hated them after I got outside that gate, then they would still have me! But I wanted to be free, so I let it go.” ~Nelson Mandela upon leaving prison after 27 years of confinement!!

Are you still sure the injustice done to you today is big enough, that you have THE RIGHT for a reaction of fiery anger, rage explosions or even treats / actions of physical violence? In case you hear an inner “YES” than it might be time to check your privileges in life and get on the peace train!! And for all of you who feel they are part of the peace movement already, CONGRATULATIONS… it will get a hell lot easier in the coming month.a2Dear Ones to close the circle, allow me to tell you that I am not sharing this tips and insides coming from an easy life and always been happy. I was angry!! Oh dear was I angry!! And in the last two days about twenty things happened, that some weeks ago would still have triggered something. But today in the morning, I just could not get angry anymore. I could feel this old me, still there in a corner of my body and somehow wanting to keep going the old way, and at the same time my body failed in it’s ‘fight or flight’ respond, so the fire did not go on. May this share bring you hope on your way to deeply peaceful manifestations, may you have others to play with and most of all, may you be free by heart!!!
Peace Hugs and Love!

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Our First Chakra Has Collectively Changed/Come Play “Goddamn Warrior”

whiteandblueby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
probably most of you know by now that I am a big fan of the conscious creation of aware relationships. I am also a big believer in honest, vulnerable and deeply authentic communication, with every single person that crosses my path. So when I prepared the beautiful piece “You’re ready for all of her, than you are a goddamn warrior”, I felt deeply moved, sensed crystal clear vibrations of divine downloads coming into my energy field and old, heaviness caring energies leaving me. Now you have to know that I was officially
on holiday that night. Booked into a hotel in our fabulous neighbor town San Pedro La Laguna, I was looking forward to a night of relaxation, a nice meal cooked by somebody else and a morning that starts without my daily responsibilities.
To crown my wonderful self-love experience, I booked myself into a local spa for a hot solar pool bath, just before going to sleep. While I was floating in the steaming hot water memories of encounters in my life came purring in, bringing back stories of the love relationships I lived, opinions my mother had shared about love, the picture society projected about women and sexuality when I was a child and all feelings connected to them. Especially vibrant where the scenes from my very first sexual love relationship, which took place for me in the age between 14 and 16 years. My partner was a wonderful, kind, caring family man, who loved me honestly, deeply, emotionally free and authentic in his passion. I remembered how my completely innocent approach to this first experience of partnership love and sexuality, made me soft in how I looked at life; bendable in how I saw the world and all beings in it; lead-able in the right moments and capable to lead, whenever it was my turn. I energetically remembered that I had experienced true balance and harmony in my very first encounter with partnership-love on this planet, what an incredible blessing.
And I tapped into how it feels when you are truly with someone and you dance together. You know, for me there is nothing more exciting, enjoyable and sensual than a man who understands to sway with me through a dance – leading us with an open heart. I breathed in the feeling of how it was to become one body on the dance floor, to give up on the physical borders of the human body and just move as one peacefully united energy field – right in the middle of a buzzing crowd. A feeling I from now on, will never forget again. A vibration that is calling out from within me now, for a person I can reunite my existence with on such profound, authentic level. A man who is consciously ready to love every little bit of me, simply because his soul gives him no other choice, as his heart loves me already since ions of time. A man willing to take on the mastery in devotion to love with me, sometimes right next to me, sometimes ahead of me and sometimes behind me, but always AS ONE.64Dear once if you are still with me, than you might ask yourself, what does that all have to do with a collective cleansing of the first chakra. And fair enough ;-)… As this was a very personal process the collective connection took a moment, but came to me today in a very interesting and inspiring talk that I had with two incredibly uplifting, aware women, who interviewed me for my potential to talk on radio. One of the questions they asked me was, if I also feel like especially working together and making money, has just made a big shift. I did not in particular feel entitled to answer this question as my soul chose her home wisely in San Marcos La Laguna, Guatemala, where most of the people in town are connected with healing in some sorts, and the vibrations are always high enough to experience human creation, from a place of ease.
But than it hit me, with all this beautiful emotions about unconditional love and innocent authentic sexuality, there also followed the memory of this relationships end. I got sacked because my partners family had a family business running, they needed a full grown up person to be part of that co-creation (my partner was 21 when we met), and because his parents thought I would not stick. That was the first time that betrayal of love, abuse of money and the possibility for a second agenda when it comes to intimate relationships ever entered my awareness. Over the years, many such situations followed, and that spoiled my natural fun to freely love for 30years. That night, in the presents of many Ascended Masters, I transformed and let go of the last bits of these memories.
And all of that was only possible, because the energetic frequency impact of the Sagittarius New Moon on December 11th, the immediately following 12/12/15 frequency Gateway and now the ongoing Galactic alignment, have collectively shifted us out of huge junks of our gathered karmic impacts of the first chakra, and into a higher frequency. The collective spiral dance of creation, of all human beings ever incarnated on the planet, has been cleared from a deeply low vibrating frequency field of former misuse, of our divine, human, masculine and feminine energetic powers. And this time it was about our natural expression in sexuality, our deep personal commitment to the creation of a peaceful world for the collective human family; our ideas, concepts and traditions around family and our definition of that term; co-operation between equals, our conscious relationship with or confusion around money and community building based on the guidance of our spiritual self. Each and everyone of them, themes who’s vibrations are stored in the first chakra of the physical human body and energy field.460I hope this little inside into my world has given you some clarity, hope and inspiration. I hope you feel invited to walk your path with your head held high, a feeling of deep faith and your heart bowed in humility and bliss, for all the beauty we experience right now!! May the divine guidance of your higher-self and supportive angels always be your favorite adviser, and may there be human friends next to you – to enjoy the wild ride that life is, together with you! Love and Blessings!!!

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Recognizing Divine Energy Pattern – December 11th New Moon Example


by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
I shared this post before, but realized I have not expressed myself correctly about its insides. The most fascinating thing about the following stories is, that we can train our eyes to see the blueprint for the collective divine plan, by hearing about their similarities. In this case by the example of the energy field of the upcoming Sagittarius New Moon on December 11th.  A little while ago, I mentioned in a post that I was attending a Community Forum Facilitator Workshop, with a hand full of other people from my community. It was an impressive experience for all of us and, thanks to the divine plan, we where just at the right time in the right place, to be inflamed by the collective desire for world peace and a new relationship paradigm on all levels of living. So we gathered again on last Friday to dig deeper. Here is what happened next:

Right after our meeting, I was just starting to prepare the New Moon Report for you guys, when I noticed that most themes we spoke about, as well as all events that had happened in my household in the morning, are written in the stars for this upcoming Moon event. For me this was just another sign of confirmation that Highly Sensitive People, Indigo Children (like many in the group are) and Empathic People (a trait that all people in the group share) often are effected by the collective energy shifts provided by heavens, some days before they actually occur. That has a very simple reason. Many of this talented personality types are supposed to develop their personal power right now and understand, it is part of our divine purpose to go thru the energetic  impacts before the collective is effected by them, so we can hold the energy for the masses – when the actual event hits the ground.aatSo allow me to go a bit into the details of what showed itself to be true for:
1.) In our first exercise we were invited to find a partner, go into our inner peaceful place, make contact, and than spontaneously tell the other “something that is true for us right now”. The very first thing I blurred out to my first partner was “ there is so much freedom born inside of me and in the world right now. Over the coming two hours of sharing, 80% of the people present told us a personal story about breaking into new feelings and dimensions of Inner Freedom, that had happened for them in the last days. Each and everyone a completely different manifested expression of this freedom, but each and every one – the same theme, the same realization for immense new opportunities.
From the moon report: This Moon is about Freedom.

2.) One of the incredible blessings we experience together, is that the group has found a common ground of openness and trust very quickly. Our sharing go deep and are allowed to turn out quite emotional. A community member talked about changing her life profoundly in this moment of time. That the energetic power to make this cut came in during the last days and how new, the path she chose, feels to her. That she experiences the endings she is choosing with such grace, that she is moving into her new beginnings with an open and loving heart, free of bitterness, fight or resentment about the change. What an amazing place to be!!! What a beautiful, personal expression of desire for world peace as well.
From the moon report: You can make graceful changes in your life.

3.) Like I mentioned before, already in our first 3 day Forum exchange, we had come to a point of trust and “harmonizing as a group”, that allowed us to generate a lot of energy for the things we feel as our souls desire. Some of this themes are the same for many of the group, some are absolutely individual – as the soul path of every person in the group demands. Each of us has taken first steps into new directions since the last meeting and now shared our ups and downs, hopes and doubts and the directions we want to try next for our lives. What again 100% of the group expressed was, that our general trust and will to follow the gentle voice of our intuition and inner knowing, had increased since our last come together.
From the moon report: Trust your inner knowing. Trust your intuition.fd4.) One thing I especially noticed in today’s interactions, was the increased intensity in the sound of our voices. All of us where talking in each and every sharing not only from a place of honesty, authenticity and self-reflection, but also from a deep “root fire of passion”, that vibrated in the sounds we made, the songs we sang and the frequencies our stories where sending into the sacred space we had created. It was a pleasure to simply watch us in action and see the “holy fire of passion for life”, collectively burn in our individual eyes.
From the moon report: This energy is like fresh air, infusing you with a new passion.

5.) Last but not least, another 100% score in our group, the desire for community building, for equality in our inner circles (to make balance extend to the outside circles over time). The wish to understand how our new spiritual values and human flesh, blood and feeling existence, can fit together and can be brought into realization in the world right now. The individual scream for a family that is chosen from the soul, and shows itself by the traits and qualities the people are bringing into the mix of this groups collective creation.
From the moon report: You empower people when you live your best life. That is walk your talk.

Dear Friends I hope this reflections are steering your passion and confidence to feel into the many expressions the collective energies find in your life right now. That it will open your eyes for the gentle visions, the divine imprint is sending out. That you can embrace the blissful energies equally to the irritations, with all your heart, your inner fire and self-confidence. I can’t even find words to express how blessed I feel for this moment of my life, where I see the things I longed for, the visions I held in my heart and my energy field for so many years, unfold in front of my eyes. May we all be blessed with flashing insides, deep connections and loving hearts here and beyond the veil.
Love and New Moon Smiles :-)!!!

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