Angelic Guidance Helps Navigate The Scorpio New Moon

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
today we are collectively experiencing the influence of this years New Moon in Scorpio and it will be a powerful one. This moon event appears for us at 4 degrees and 24 minutes of the astrological water sign. Details about the spiritual context I shared on October 24th in my article called “The Spiritual Impact The Scorpio New Moon Is Providing“. As usually the angelic realms delivered some guidelines in form of angelic number sequences to help us through the day. DON’T FORGET TO SIGN UP RIGHT HERE, on the right sidebar of my homepage, to get also “The Daily Angel” posts as information delivered into your mailbox every morning!

This are the Angelic Numbers most vivid during todays Scorpio New Moon:
Angel Number 414:

The angel number 414 is caring the important message of being aware of our boundaries, our core values and personal measure. It is important for all of us to make our concerns heard, speak out and share with others capable of caring responsibility. This number also speaks of clear cuts that have to be made and cycles that have to end, when our clear voice and honest concerns are not respected or heard. Clarity, courage and purity in feeling what vibrates with us, is key during these days of confusion! Take actions that will lead you to becoming the person you desire to see in society, and walk the talk, everything else will fall into place by the Angels guidance.

People with good intentions make promises but only people with good character keep them.
Unknown

Most people will talk the talk, few will walk the walk; be amongst those few.
Steve Maraboli

The most important thing is that we are walking our talk. Be it. Just be it.
Gabby Bernstein

Angel Number 4488:

This number is bringing the wonderful invitation to make a conscious step out of the wheel of Karma, and into the creators responsibility of the wheel of life. When we are ready to take responsibility for all our energies and have proved to master them gracefully, this number is the confirmation that we succeeded in our quest for self-mastery. This number speaks of balance and stability, that is getting stronger and extends from the inside to the outside world we have build for ourselves. Stay brave and courageously walk your path, and the new creations you desire will come soon now!

Self Mastery is the ability to maneuver through life without the mind or emotional attachment. It is being a mindfully present observer instead of the mind identified perceiver.
Renee Cefalu

Life is fundamentally a mental state. We live in a dream world that we create. Whose life is truer, the rational man of action pursuing practical goals of personal happiness and wealth or the philosophic man who lives in a world of theoretical and metaphysical ideas? We ascribe the value quotient to our lives by making decisions that we score as either valid or invalid based upon our personal ethics and how we think and behave.
Kilroy J. Oldster

Angel Number 6464:

This number is a confirmation that the hard work and effort we have put into our spiritual evolution, will have wonderful long-term benefits for us, our loved ones, and our community. That the universal energies have taken care of our financial and material issues, and further blessings are on their way. Feel encouraged to keep up the great work!! Let’s stay grounded and focused, aware that our angels surround and support us, while we enjoy every minute of fulfilling our divine life purpose and soul path.

Live simply. Only own that which you need and perhaps a few little things for your personal enjoyment. Fundamentally, own only what you truly need and there will be no confusion, and you will not have to work too hard for money. Give money to support those things that inspire you. They require support, and you need to support them to experience your relationship with them.
Living the Way of Knowledge

You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pursue the things you love doing, and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off you.
Maya Angelou

If you crave acceptance and recognition and try to change yourself to fit what other people want you to be, you will suffer all your life. True happiness and true power lie in understanding yourself, accepting yourself, having confidence in yourself.
Thich Nhat Hanh

Dear Ones, I hope you are feeling highly motivated to dig deep into your emotional body under the guidance of this powerful Scorpio New Moon. Collectively we are lead to move forward in the creation of the Golden Age of Aquarius for all beings on planet earth!
Love and New Moon Blessings!
Edith

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Being Prepared For The New Moon In Cancer With Total Solar Eclipse

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
on July 2nd or 3rd, we are collectively experiencing the influence of a New Moon in 10 degree and 38 minutes of the sensitive zodiac sign of the Cancer. This stellar event is particularly powerful as coupled with a total solar eclipse and therefor amplified in impact. The Cancer / Capricorn axis is highly vivid this year, so if we are wise we take every chance for a conscious shift in awareness. 

Collectively we will feel invited to examen the themes of self-love, self-care and self-respect on even deeper levels and to make adjustments in this areas, if we find ourselves responsible of neglect. After all, keeping healthy boundaries allows us to truly enjoy the time we share with others.

Our self-respect tracks our choices. Every time we act in harmony with our authentic self and our heart, we earn our respect. It is that simple. Every choice matters.
Dan Coppersmith

Most of the shadows of this life are caused by standing in one’s own sunshine.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others.
Parker Palmer

Very vivid sensible is the theme of family during the influence of this Cancer New Moon. The question might arise what family truly means to you. If the love we share with the people most present in our life is all there is to give, or maybe humanity in itself can become the tribe we seek. Such profound questions will be front and center of our collective emotional challenges these days.

Modern capitalism needs men who cooperate smoothly and in large numbers; who want to consume more and more; and whose tastes are standardized and can be easily influenced and anticipated. What is the outcome? Modern man is alienated from himself, from his fellow man and from nature.
Erich From

You must know that only he who fights the darkness within will the day after tomorrow have his own share in the sun.
Odysseus Elytis

We have flown the air like birds and swum the sea like fishes, but have yet to learn the simple act of walking the earth like brothers.
Martin Luther King Jr.

I want to live in a society filled with people who are curious and concerned about each other rather than afraid of each other. I want to live in a world full of brave people who are willing to risk not only adventure but emotional intimacy. I want to live in a world full of explorers and generous souls rather than people who have voluntarily become prisoners of their own fortresses. I want to live in a world full of people who look into each other’s faces along the path of life and ask, Who are you, my friend, and how can we serve each other?
Elizabeth M. Gilbert

Another aspect of this strong New Moon in Cancer many of us might feel the need to take a deeper look at the way our nutrition is structured. You might have forgotten along the way, to adapt some habits that do no longer serve your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual strength. Realizing that a holistic nutrition is much more than just food, you might also enjoy consciously working with the stellar realms these days. If so you can use the prayer below!

The Template Sacred Day ceremony by Juliet Carter
IN THIS BEAUTIFUL, THIS AMAZING MAGICAL MOMENT
I CELEBRATE MY ONENESS WITH THE EARTH AND THE SUN
BRINGING MY FULL AWARENESS INTO THIS MOMENT
I CONSCIOUSLY HONOR MY PHYSICAL BEING AS A COSMIC PORTAL,
A CHANNEL OF DIVINE CONSCIOUSNESS IN FLOW
A STAR GATE IN TIME AND SPACE

EVERY BREATH CRYSTALLIZES MY EXISTENCE AS A
CO-ORDINATE IN THE DIVINE IMMORTAL CONTINUUM,
CLEANSING MY EMOTIONAL BODY
MY MENTAL BODY BREAKS FREE OF ITS MORTAL CONFINES
AS I REMEMBER MY QUANTUM GALACTIC IDENTITY,
AWAKENING MY FEARLESS SELF

THROUGH MY CONSCIOUS COMMUNION
WITH THE ALCHEMICAL ELEMENT OF CREATION
MY SPIRITUAL IDENTITY MERGES IN PERFECT UNION
WITH ALL OTHER ASPECTS OF MYSELFDear Ones, may you all find balance between the gentleness of your heart and the clarity of the outside world under the influence of this wonderful Cancer New Moon and total solar eclipse. I wish you all the best for a strong start into the new.
Love and New Moon Blessings!
Edith

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The Spiritual Impact Of The Second Libra Full Moon

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
here we are meeting the incredible possibility to encounter a second Full Moon in Libra this year!! On May 19th we are collectively experiencing the influence of this rare Full Moon event and will occur in the position of 29 degree and 7 minutes this time.
There is a magnificent new beginning for our relationships and inner balance written in the stars! Take every chance you can get to increase your awareness level on those old pattern that show themselves unharmonious right now, so you can transform them over time.

Trust the flow of life my friends and remember that awakening is not a race! Don’t be impatient with yourself or others these days! Everything needs it’s time and in the right moment your eyes will be opened to the details necessary for your personal evolution. You’ll get aware and see in a bigger context what is not understandable for you in this very moment.

You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.
Buckminster Fuller

Remember the two benefits of failure. First, if you do fail, you learn what doesn’t work; and second, the failure gives you the opportunity to try a new approach.
Roger Von Oech

Dreamers are mocked as impractical. The truth is they are the most practical, as their innovations lead to progress and a better way of life for all of us.
Robin S. Sharma

Solid advice right now is that we take time to contemplate the impact and meaning of the masculine and feminine energies within ourselves and in daily life situations. After all a more harmonic interaction between the male and female that is flowing within each of us, also leads to more balanced in our outer relationships! Study the balance between active hours and resting hours; between stability and flexibility; safety and adventure; strength and vulnerability; self-care and sharing yourself; actions for personal gain and being of service. This can help with reaching profound levels of understanding and individually lead us to a valuable starting point to regain harmony and balance on this beautiful planet.
How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.
Wayne W. Dyer

Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others.
Parker Palmer

My value as a woman is not measured by the size of my waist or the number of men who like me. My worth as a human being is measured on a higher scale: a scale of righteousness and piety. And my purpose in life-despite what fashion magazines say-is something more sublime than just looking good for men.
Yasmin Mogahed

A further layer of life and relationships we might be challenged to understand more profoundly during the influence of this second Libra Full Moon, is the balance between interacting with the bigger society we are living in and advocating for our own individual truth and authenticity. Ask yourself how it is possible for you to keep your head clear and pure, while listening to opinions and advice from those who travel on the path with us.

I don’t think you should be vulnerable every day, but there are moments where you’ve got to share your soul and conscience with people and show them who you are, and not be afraid of it.
Howard Schultz

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
Steve Jobs

It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends.
J. K. Rowling
Dear Ones, I hope you are all taking some time to truly align yourself with the magical energy field of this second Full Moon in Libra. May you all find lots of harmony in your heart, balance with the world and lots of inspiration for Golden Age relationship models. 
Love and Full Moon Blessings!
Edith

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The Best Reads By New Beginnigs This Year

 

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
can you believe that this year is over in just a couple of days? I still nearly can’t wrap my mind around it. It was a very big year for humanity on planet earth, and it was full of powerful collective impacts to rise planet earth into the Golden Age of Aquarius.
Since this incredible year 2018 has began, we have altogether grown so much and experienced so many changes in the collective human awareness, that it makes sense for us to take a look back at the teachings we have received.
Many of those teachings also will continuingly be important on our journey through the upcoming 2019 cycle, and by informing ourselves one more time we might gain insides that we are now ready to apply.

Intense collective themes that moved our planet this year can be reviewed and integrated into our daily divinely inspired work. I hope you enjoy the articles and that they bare lots of help for you!

Excepting All Blessings The Sacred Union Of The Inner Light Provides
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/03/11/excepting-all-blessings-the-sacred-union-of-the-inner-light-provides/

Writing Your Deepest Soul Desires Into Manifestation
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/03/20/writing-your-deepest-soul-desires-into-manifestation/

Shifting To Higher Awareness With Conscious Forgiveness
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/04/09/shifting-to-higher-awareness-with-conscious-forgiveness/

The Power Of Being Witnessed In Authentic Expression/Meditation
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/05/06/the-power-of-being-witnessed-in-authentic-expression-meditation/

Shifting From Spiritual Bypassing Into Authentic Transcendence
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/06/01/shifting-from-spiritual-bypassing-into-authentic-transcendence/

Practicing Self-Love And Self-Care
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/07/03/practicing-self-love-and-self-care/

Collectively Moving On From Sexualization And Abuse
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/07/15/collectively-moving-on-from-sexualization-and-abuse/

6 Awakening Questions To Ask In A New Love Relationship
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/07/21/6-awakening-questions-to-ask-in-a-new-love-relationship/

Learning To Embrace The Oneness Of Darkness And Light
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/08/14/learning-to-embrace-the-oneness-of-darkness-and-light/

20 Buddha Quotes To Help Us Move On And Find The Golden Path
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/09/18/20-buddha-quotes-to-help-us-move-on-and-find-the-golden-path/

Achieving Balance Between Self-Love And Sharing Our Self
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/10/18/achieving-balance-between-self-love-and-sharing-our-self/

A Selection Of True Awakening Experiences No III
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/10/27/a-selection-of-true-awakening-experiences-no-iii/

Walking In The Shoes Of My “Divine Mission Possible”
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/11/25/walking-in-the-shoes-of-my-divine-mission-possible/ 

The Spiritual Impact That The Year 2019 Is Collectively Creating https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/12/13/the-spiritual-impact-that-the-year-2019-is-collectively-creating/

Your Personal Numerology Year 2019
https://edithboyertelmer.com/2018/12/28/your-personal-numerology-year-2019/
Dear ones, I hope you enjoy this little collection of the best reads we could provide for you this year. I hope they will entertain you and provide lots of practical guidance for your personal path of entering the vibration of the Golden Age of Aquarius.
Love and Blessings
Edith

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Practicing Self-Love And Self-Care

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
during the last month the population of the home I chose by heart – Guatemala – had to endure very painful losses, when the forces of nature spoke up intensively with eruptions of the Vulcano Fuego and earthquakes, that cost hundreds of people their lives and destroyed the dreams of many families in our country.
In situations that rock the collective emotional body so profoundly as such big impacts do, we are well of to be aware of the influence that trauma and emotional pain have on human beings. There is on one hand the big need to step in and help the ones who are in need right now, and on the other hand the mean and dark side of people shows up stronger too. What ever face you meet right now in the outside world, it is an important time for us to practice self-care and self-love, in order to stay balanced and able to be effective in our attempt to assist others. 

If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.
Barbara De Angelis

Your problem is you’re too busy holding onto your unworthiness.
Ram Dass

You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.
Louise L. Hay

Self-pity gets you nowhere. One must have the adventurous daring to accept oneself as a bundle of possibilities and undertake the most interesting game in the world making the most of one’s best.
Harry Emerson Fosdick

Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others.
Parker Palmer

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.
Lucille Ball

You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
BuddhaI think everybody’s weird. We should all celebrate our individuality and not be embarrassed or ashamed of it.
Johnny Depp

Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.
Eleanor Roosevelt

Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.
M. Scott Peck

When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.
Jean Shinoda Bolen

When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn’t healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits – anything that kept me small.  My judgement called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving.
Kim McMillen

Most of the shadows of this life are caused by standing in one’s own sunshine.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Our self-respect tracks our choices. Every time we act in harmony with our authentic self and our heart, we earn our respect. It is that simple. Every choice matters.
Dan Coppersmith

I want to live in a society filled with people who are curious and concerned about each other rather than afraid of each other. I want to live in a world full of brave people who are willing to risk not only adventure but emotional intimacy. I want to live in a world full of explorers and generous souls rather than people who have voluntarily become prisoners of their own fortresses. I want to live in a world full of people who look into each other’s faces along the path of life and ask, Who are you, my friend, and how can we serve each other?
Elizabeth M. GilbertDear ones, I hope you feel motivated right now to make the clear differentiation between being selfish and taking very good care of your personal love for self, and that you feel inspired to do the right thing for yourself and others. 
Love and Blessings
Edith

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The Spiritual Impact This Year’s First Leo New Moon Is Providing

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
Its absolutely time to get out of all our old pattern, to be strong and get ready! On July 23rd we are all together facing the influence of the first of two Leo New Moons in this year, at 0 degrees and 24minutes. This is not a random Leo Moon at all, but a force of transformation as it is powered with the activity of no less than six planets in a zodiac fire sign. With this 0 degree Leo New Moon we are tuning into a long line of Leo energy, which passes through the lions gate from August 8th to August 12th, and continues to the second Leo New Moon on August 21st at 28degree.

The Leo energy field is one that provokes questions of the inner light, questions about self-love, self-care and self-respect. It is the ideal time to check in with our heart and ask ourselves some challenging questions. If you want to ride the wave of this Moons blessings, answer this questions to yourself:

In what kind of situations is my heart declining to love?
In what kind of encounter with other people do I close my heart?
What is my reaction pattern once my heart is closed?
How can I extend my expression of love in this world?

Just as a painter needs light in order to put the finishing touches to his picture, so I need an inner light, which I feel I never have enough of in the autumn.
Leo Tolstoy

Turn on the light within, expand your horizons and reach your full potential.
Amit Ray

The ticket to Utopia is real love that springs from within us.
Katerina Kostaki

This intense Leo New Moon is truly providing us with the possibility to burn every negativity in its energy field, and for all those who are already working with the violet fire of transformation, it can even be an extra push for a conscious initiation to higher vibrations.
The Sun, the Moon and the planet of war Mars are in Leo during this New Moon, which creates a very strong fire energy field, especially as they all square the planet Uranus. We have to be very aware of our physical body and be particularly careful with the Mars in Uranus aspect, which can bring forward accidents because of a sense of urgency and our impatient ways of reacting to them. In order to master this energy, you can ask yourself the following questions:How am I using my personal energies?
Where do I rush too much?
Where do I react to quick?
Where do I feel pushed to do things I do not actually like?
Where do I feel pushed by a the idea of time?
Where am I not living from the heart?
Do I feel free to express my joy authentically?
How can I base all of my creations on joy from now on?

I AM the violet flame
In action in me now
I AM the violet flame
To Light alone I bow

I AM the violet flame
In mighty cosmic power
I AM the light of God
Shining every hour

I AM the violet flame
Blazing like a sun
I AM God’s sacred power
Freeing every one
Elizabeth Clare Prophet

One of the big challenges can be not to get trapped in expressions of lower vibration like anger, frustration or even depression. A great way to approach this, is again to ask ourselves some questions.

How do I usually deal with anger?
Can I feel a difference between my feelings of anger, disappointment and frustration?
Am I aware how to release overbearing fire energies inside of me?
Can I imagine more creative ways to use my life force?

Creativity will be another collectively important theme for all of us from the human race. We might feel invited to take new risks, or to maybe follow our heart and passion authentically. And again there are a couple of questions we can ask ourselves.

Do I feel in touch with my creativity?
Do I feel creatively in flow?
How do I express my creative energy?
Can I imagine to express myself also in other creative ways?

Dear Ones, I hope you are in love with your own life and the powerful fire energies that are taking of these days!! I hope you will be able to make absolutely the best out of this Leo New Moon field and that your higher self is guiding you to divine actions.
Love & New Moon Blessings!
Edith

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Manifesting Our Dream Relationship With The Sagittarius New Moon Influence

sagiby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
on October 30th we have experienced a beautiful Scorpio New Moon, which opened the cycle that is closing with this upcoming Sagittarius New Moon on November 29th. The archer, as the sign is often called, is an adventurous fire sign with an impeccable eye for every goal we are setting. With this New Moon comes the challenging impact of the Sun and the Moon squaring Neptune, and Venus in square with Uranus; which are impacts that can create instability and lack of clarity of the mind.
But the influence we will feel the strongest at this Moon event will be the energy field of the Asteroid Juno, which brings forward our love relationships. The good, the bad and the ugly is in the spotlight of the center stage during this Sagittarius New Moon. Long settled relationships can suddenly find their end, just as much as new encounter can emerge in total authenticity. “Don’t ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” ~Howard Thurman

So take the chance for something very special in your life, if that is what your heart and soul desire. Use the energy field to bring into the world, your most personal expression of true love in relationship. The Ascended Master Confucius, the master of humaneness said: “If there is righteousness in the heart, there will be beauty in the character. If there is beauty in the character, there will be harmony in the home. If there is harmony in the home, there will be order in the nations.
When there is order in the nations, there will be peace in the world.” For me personally, that sounds like a good base for our new relationship paradigm in action.

Here are some tips how to use your inner clarity to attract what is authentic for you:
1. Make sure you know your own needs:

A wonderful way to attract the person you need as partner, is to be aware of who and how you truly are in love-relationships. Ask yourself what you really desire from a partner. What it is you want to share with this other person in your life!
If you are not quite sure, a first step could be a clarifying meditation. Take some time to write down memories of former relationships. Memories of situations you don’t want to repeat ever again. Memories of human traits and expressions, you are not comfortable living with. Allow yourself to feel all the emotions and irritations relate, without letting them overwhelm you. Than put the list away for 3 days.

2. Look at your needs from a rational, not emotional point:
When 3 days have past, pick up your list and look, plainly from a rational point of view, at the people you chose for this past relationships. Try to be as honest as possible to yourself, even if it hurts! Look at their character, their lifestyle, their dreams, the relationship they have with their core family. Is there a pattern emerging?
The thing is, we can easily feel chemistry with people who are not good for us, and often we tend to do so. If you get lost in feelings of lust, power or other charismatic attraction, you can easily end up in a toxic relationship. So in future ask yourself if the person you are interested in, has what it takes to truly be a good relationship partner for you.23. Learn to meet your own needs:
Allow your partner to be “the most wonderful”, who is able to meet all your needs and – never depend on the other for self-care and emotional balance. It is simple not your partners job to be there for you all the time, it is yours!!
Taking self-responsibility for our authentic needs, leads to self-empowerment, better self-worth and self-respect, and that leads to more harmonic relationships. As result you will also feel more confident to pick a partner who is right for you!

4. Be aware of your boundaries and hold these space for yourself:
Being honest to ourselves about our boundaries and limitations is absolute essential for a undisturbed energy flow in all human relationships. Every minute you spend in company, you teach people how to treat you. You are consistently sending out information to others about how you want to be treated. Knowing that, you can imagine that inner clarity about your personal “rights and wrongs” is an excellent way to attract a fitting relationship partner.

5. Know how to enjoy yourself alone:
For many people it is a desire to be in a love-relationship, to share experiences together and create new dreams. It can be hard and painful for people to be alone, after all as human beings we are naturally built to be love and bond with others.
Problem is, the “fear of being alone” – is the most common reason people stay in dysfunctional relationships. So do things alone, hang out with yourself and learn to truly enjoy your own company.

6. Be who you are looking for:
We live in a universe that works by the law of attraction!! What we desire in our world, we have to become first! Easy as that! How could you possible go out there and ask the divine forces for an honest, authentic and loyal partner, when you are an unauthentic lair, who usually betrays there partner within the first week!??
Instead bit by bit, you have to take on the list of abilities you are looking for in others.
To choose healthy partner and create better relationships, we must have integrity and keep our promises. We need to be authentic in word, deed and action. Be available! Be Present! Make time for each other and you will see, that love will flow!11Dear Ones, I hope you are fully motivated now, to manifest your true soul partner under the influence of this magical Sagittarius New Moon. I hope you feel worthy to call to your side, a person you want to share the Golden Age of Aquarius with. Do it from the clarity of your souls burning desire and the passion of your heart, and you can’t fail.
Blessings & Loving Relationships!!!
Edith

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The New Relationship Paradigm – Things That Drive Independent Women Away

twinloveby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
the other day I found this refreshing article from Suzanne Kammer about things that guys do, that drive independent women away from their relationships. After we all have been going thru the collective healing of the divine masculine within, that the Equinox energies have brought upon us; and the recent triggering of the Twin Flame healing into the threefold inner flame of divinity; I feel that many things she mentions are not only true for independent girls, but collectively needed to create the co-creative connections we desire for the Golden Age of Aquarius. So no matter if you are a guy who is seeking to develop a broader understanding about women, a woman in relationship who failed so far to communicate this needs, or open for something new to come… this are valuable tips what to watch out for!! And as I did it before, I posted here the original article with my comments in color, below every section!

If there’s one thing an independent girl refuses to give up, it’s her independence. While these types of women may be seen as intimidating or cold, they’re often just misunderstood by men who are looking for a woman that can feed their ego. An independent woman is looking for a man that is as secure as she is – a man that knows the difference between wanting and needing another person. There’s a certain type of man that can date an independent woman, but if he’s doing any of these things, the relationship is not likely to last long.

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We will survive if we don’t see you every day. We’d even be okay if we had to spend a week apart. But the second you try to take up all our time and not give us our space when we need it, we’re going to feel smothered. And there’s nothing we hate more than that.
Funny enough I just recently had an experience like that during my holiday at the beach. It was like watching a whole relationship unfold in front of me, within the period of 6 hours. Met a guy at the buffet, shared a coffee and talked a while; went our ways.. met again and enjoyed spending more time… separated again.. did our things and the next time we met (between 9am in the morning and 3pm in the afternoon), he had developed the idea of having a RIGHT to CLAIM and DEMAND my time, space and presence… SERIOUSLY…
And girls, if you see him do that within 6 hours.. JUST WALK AWAY… no matter how cute, sexy, interesting or otherwise attractive he is for you!!

2. Getting upset when she travels alone
We crave new experiences and adventure, we like being alone with our own thoughts and we are comfortable striking up a conversation even when we don’t know a single person in another country. These are qualities an independent girl values about herself. And if you try and throw her down for them, you can kiss her goodbye.
If you are not jet in an relationship but are training your senses to translate a higher understanding of what you really need, so you can identify a good partner when you meet one, this is an important thing to watch. For all the journey of traveling life together, a true partner knows when to step back and let the other live their natural powers, and when to step in – because the situation requires theirs!! This is something couples learn to harmonize over time, by listening well to the vibration of the partner and the situation.

3. Being overprotective
We’ve likely been on our own for a while. We can fend for ourselves. We’re looking for a partner, not a second father.
I totally agree with her “looking for a partner, not a father” part, and apart from that, there is so much more for me in the wrong type of protection. I feel the feminist few of “I can do it all for myself” has also harmed us in our ability to allow being pampered, taken care of and treated lovingly by the ones we care for, so I like being protected on that level. But than over my lifetime I saw masculine protection turn within the blink of an eye into control, domineering, belittling and overpowering – and that does not harmonize with equality and co-creation!!knkj4. Making her feel guilty when she takes a day to herself
Sometimes we just want a day to ourselves. Don’t be offended if we choose a night in with Netflix over seeing you. It has nothing to do with how we feel about you and everything to do with how we feel about ourselves. We value our alone time and, heck, sometimes we absolutely need it.
This in my eyes is a matter of self-knowledge and self-care, and needs to be communicated in clarity. So many people by now are aware that they carry the traits of an empath, that they are Indigo Children, Crystal Children, Highly Sensitive, introverts, or..or.. or…, and all this personality types have an elevated need for official “alone time”. For many of this people it is even necessary that nobody is physically present in the same space (that can be simply a room, a whole house, a complete property), so they can deeply open up to energetic regeneration with the divine source direct. So if we know all that, it is our responsibility to communicate it to our partner in a way, that they can understand and respect our needs!?

5. Trying to do everything for her
We can change our own light bulb, carry our own groceries and drive ourselves, thank you very much.
Here again I sense a bit to much anger and feminism for my personal taste. I really don’t have to carry my groceries home – while my partner with the naturally stronger muscles – walks home next to me without bags!! I also enjoy being picked up, taking of my shoes immediately, putting up my feed on the cars dashboard and have a relaxed ride home, chatting away; while my partner drives us home, no problem with that. The only thing unhealthy is when a man implyes with words or energetically that I lost my ability to do this things for myself, because he appeared in my life!! Also that is not coherent with equality!!

6. Being jealous
We are going to talk to who we want and hang out with who we want. We want to be trusted and the last thing we need is an insecure man who makes us constantly check in with them or interrogates us like we’re at a job interview.
Well I agree with her on the “checking in and interrogation” parts, not on the general topic. If we desire to have deeply soul touching relationships, than we have to be capable to move on from stereo types!! It is one thing to say I am not interested in a partner that is willing to control me – but that is easily done by choosing a person who trusts themselves, but there also has to be space to express in an appropriate way if particular behaviors of our partner trigger us in our insecurities. If not we are not providing a safe space for growth for another, and the relationship starts limiting instead of expanding us!uh7. Telling her she can’t do something
We’re sorry, but we don’t recall asking for permission.
Noting else to say but “AGREED” on that one ;-)!

8. Taking her away from her family or friends
When you weren’t around, family and friends were our everything. We’re not about to give that up. We value our relationships with the people who are important to us. Even when we have a boyfriend, we still need time for the ones who have been there since day one.
Again this is simple self-responsibility, nobody can take anyone away from someone, we always have a part in that! Situations like that are about control, power and emtional safety, not an expression of love!

9. Wanting to come everywhere with her
We are perfectly comfortable going out to get food alone. We can attend a wedding without a date. And we don’t need you to be our body guard every time we go out dancing with friends.
That’s the same than number one.

10. Putting down her hobbies
You don’t have to like our hobbies or even take part in them, but you better respect them. There’s no bigger turnoff than a man who discourages you and can’t support what you’re passionate about.
I think this is another important topic to take a deeper look at. Why at all partnering with somebody who has the need to discourage us at all?? How can that serve the partnership? How will that bring passion, beauty and natural desire for the mutually created projects (including reproduction) into the mix?? And again bringing others down is about feeling higher up.. so no equality in this team!

11. Needing constant reassurance
We need a man who can be secure about our relationship even if we don’t make you feel needed all the time. The truth is, we don’t need you. We’re completely fine on our own. What’s important is that we actually want you.
I agree very much with the “ we don’t need you” and “what’s important is that we actually want you” parts and, if we demand from our partner that he never feels insecure, just because he is born male, than we are simply stuck in stereo types!!l

12. Paying all the time
You know we work too, right?
I feel that is totally a matter of agreement and has to be arranged between every couple individually. When we are developed enough to desire an authentic co-creative love relationship, maybe even meet a Twin Flame partner, we can’t get stuck in fights about money – that is ridiculous! Real partner work together, they talk and make the arrangement that fits for their personal situation. No society colored opinion needed here!!!

13. Not having a life outside of her
We know there are three aspects to a relationship- the me, the you and the us. We like a man who knows how to take care of the ‘you’. We want you to have your own hobbies, take a weekend trip with the guys and do things for yourself once in a while.
This I found interesting because I feel that when we truly are independent beings (no matter if man or woman), we don’t attract people who are not!! A self-sustainable woman (who learned to feed her emotional, mental, spiritual and physical body herself, will naturally attract a man who also knows about the 1+1=3!!! So if you feel like the author in your relation right now, ask yourself where your have not quite developed true independence jet!

14. Being too traditional when it comes to gender roles
We can pay for our own dinner, put together our own piece of furniture and even work after giving birth.
Just a repetition of 1, 3, 9 and 12.

15. Moving too fast
We didn’t get this independent overnight. We’re likely used to being on our own and it may take a little while for us to get used to having someone else around. We are secure enough on our own that we don’t need someone to tell us they love us on the second date, we don’t need to meet your parents tomorrow and we aren’t going to move in with you next week.
Haha.. this actually is perfectly explained by my answer of number 1.aaDear Ones, I hope you enjoyed the read, had maybe a good laugh about one or the other familiar theme, and all in all got inspired to take a good deep look at the reality and insides of your relationship life so far!! May the information bring blessings and seeds of new beginnings and divine manifestations to you, and may you feel strong to take your self-love to the next level. The energies are strong and the universe is sending us the winds of change on the way, while we are walking into the Golden Age of Humanity!!
Love and Blessings!!
Edith

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How To Attract A Relationship Partner For The Golden Age – Thru Inner Clarity

bjl;by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
as we all can feel, we are in the middle of shifting the collective paradigm in our human sexuality. Over the last few month I talked about the profound inner transformation so many of us can already feel. I shared information on Polyamory, on a Shamanic approach of Tantra, the fact how deeply confused so many of us feel about the missus of sexual energy in everyday life and what to be aware of to identify a spiritual sexual predator. Taking in account all this information and evaluating it with where we are standing in our life, creates the clarity it takes to attract by SIMPLY BEING, the right partner/s for our Golden Age manifestations.

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Here some tips how to prepare yourself for making  a healthy choice next time:
1. Make sure you know your own needs:

The best way to attract the person you need as partner, is to be aware of who and how you truly are in love-relationships. Ask yourself what you really desire from a partner. What it is you want to share with this other person in your life!
If you are not quite sure, a first step could be a clarifying meditation. Take some time to write down memories of former relationships. Memories of situations you don’t want to repeat ever again. Memories of human traits and expressions, you are not comfortable living with. Allow yourself to feel all the emotions and irritations relate, without letting them overwhelm you. Than put the list away for 3 days.53c2. Look at your needs from a rational, not emotional point:
When 3 days have past, pick up your list and look from a rational point of view at the people you chose for this past relationships. Try to be as honest as possible to yourself, even if it hurts! Look at their character, their lifestyle, their dreams, the relationship they have with their core family. Is there a pattern emerging?
The thing is, we can easily feel chemistry with people who are not good for us, and often we tend to do so. If you get lost in feelings of lust, power or other charismatic attraction, you can easily end up in a toxic relationship. So in future ask yourself if the person you are interested in, has what it takes to truly be a good relationship partner for you.

3. Learn to meet your own needs:
Allow your partner to be “the most wonderful”, who is able to meet all your needs and – never depend on the other for self-care and emotional balance. It is simple not your partners job to be there for you all the time, it is yours!! If you choose personal responsibility in the areas of inner peace, emotional balance, your career, debts, taking care of your health etc.. , you will experience a new breeze of relaxation in your relationships.
Do so, and you will also feel more confident to pick a partner who is right for you! Taking self-responsibility for our authentic needs, leads to self-empowerment, better self-worth and self-respect, and that leads to more harmonic relationships.

4. Be aware of your boundaries and hold these space for yourself:
Being honest to ourselves about our boundaries and limitations is absolute essential for a undisturbed energy flow in all human relationships. Every minute you spend in company, you teach people how to treat you. You are consistently sending out information to others, about how you want to be treated. What is within your boundaries and what is a deal-breaker for you.
You communicate to others your core values about things like honesty, respect, reliability, sharing, what you need as personal space, your alone time, or how much physical affection and romance you need. Knowing that, you can imagine that inner clarity about your personal “rights and wrongs” is an excellent way to attract a fitting relationship partner.asa5. Know how to enjoy yourself alone:
For most people it is simple wonderful to be able to hang out with other human beings, share experiences together and create new dreams. It can be hard and painful for people, to be alone, as human beings are naturally built to be in love and bonded with another.
Problem is, the “fear of being alone” – is the most common reason people stay in dysfunctional relationships. So do things alone, hang out with yourself and learn to truly enjoy your own company. Know, that before you can have a successful and fulfilling relationship with another, you have to develop a solid relationship with yourself.

6. Be who you are looking for:
We live in a universe that works by the law of attraction!! What we desire in our world, we have to become first! Easy as that! How could you possible go out there and ask the divine forces for an honest, authentic and loyal partner, when you are an unauthentic lair, who usually betrays there partner within the week!??
Instead bit by bit, you have to become the list of what you are looking for in others.
To choose healthy partner and create better relationships, we must have integrity and keep our promises. We need to be authentic in word, deed and action. Be truly present with your partner! Be available! Make time for each other and you will see, the love will flow!

Dear Ones, I hope you are fully motivated now, to manifest your true soul partner. A person you can share the Golden Age of Aquarius with. Do it from the clarity of your souls guidance and the passion of your heart, and you can’t fail, if this is what you truly desire to experience in this world!!
Blessings & Loving Relationships!!!
Edith

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Clarity Attracts!! How To Choose The Right Relationship Partner

indexby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
finding a person to truly co-create a healthy relationship with, is not always easy. Many people do not put enough effort energy or patience into their partnership, to really deeply engage with somebody. At the same time it is natural for humans to desire relations. Nerveless not all of them are good for us, and it is on us to learn how to choose wisely!
In order to
long-term be inspiring and up-lifting for another, couples have to experience each other as equals, show mutual respect for each others needs, and understanding for differentiating personality traits.
Often when people realize that they are not in a satisfying relationship, they look for someone to blame or make efforts to change their partner. A more truthful way is to acknowledge, the relationship is dysfunctional toxic and has to end.
Here some tips how to prepare yourself to make a better choice next time!!

1. Make sure you know your own needs:

The best way to attract the person you need as partner, is to be aware of who and how you truly are in love-relationships. Ask yourself what you really desire from a partner. What it is you want to share with this other person in your life!
If you are not quite sure, a first step could be a clarifying meditation. Take some time to write down memories of former relationships. Memories of situations you don’t want to repeat ever again. Memories of human traits and expressions, you are not comfortable living with. Allow yourself to feel all the emotions and irritations relate, without letting them overwhelm you. Than put the list away for 3 days.

2. Look at your needs from a rational, not emotional point:

When 3 days have past, pick up your list and look from a rational point of few at the people you chose for this past relationships. Try to be as honest as possible to yourself, even if it hurts! Look at their character, their lifestyle, their dreams, the relationship they have with their core family. Is there a pattern emerging?
The thing is, we can easily feel chemistry with people who are not good for us, and often we tend to do so. If you get lost in feelings of lust, power or other charismatic attraction, you can easily end up in a toxic relationship.
So in future ask yourself if the person you are interested in, has what it takes to truly be a good relationship partner for you.

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3. Learn to meet your own needs:

Allow your partner to be “the most wonderful”, who is able to meet all your needs and – never depend on the other for self-care and emotional balance. It is simple not your partners job to be there for you all the time, it is yours!! If you choose personal responsibility in the areas of inner peace, emotional balance, your career, debts, taking care of your health etc.. , you will experience a new breeze of relaxation in your relationships.
Do so, and you will also feel more confident to pick a partner who is right for you! Taking self-responsibility for our authentic needs, leads to self-empowerment, better self-worth and self-respect, and that leads to more harmonic relationships.

4. Be aware of your boundaries and hold these space for yourself:

Being honest to ourselves about our boundaries and limitations is absolute essential for a undisturbed energy flow in all human relationships. Every minute you spend in company, you teach people how to treat you. You are consistently sending out information to others, about how you want to be treated. What is within your boundaries and what is a deal-breaker for you.
You communicate to others your core values about things like honesty, respect, reliability, sharing, what you need as personal space, your alone time, or how much physical affection and romance you need. Knowing that, you can imagine that inner clarity about your personal “rights and wrongs” is an excellent way to attract a fitting relationship partner.

alle seiten gewesen!5. Know how to enjoy yourself alone:

For most people it is simple wonderful to be able to hang out with other human beings, share experiences together and create new dreams. It can be hard and painful for people, to be alone, as human beings are naturally built to be in love and bonded with another.
Problem is, the “fear of being alone” – is the most common reason people stay in dysfunctional relationships. So do things alone, hang out with yourself and learn to truly enjoy your own company. Know, that before you can have a successful and fulfilling relationship with another, you have to develop a solid relationship with yourself.

6. Be who you are looking for:

We live in a universe that works by the law of attraction!! What we desire in our world, we have to become first! Easy as that! How could you possible go out there and ask the divine forces for an honest, authentic and loyal partner, when you are an unauthentic lair, who usually betrays there partner within the week!??
Instead bit by bit, you have to become the list of what you are looking for in others.
To choose healthy partner and create better relationships, we must have integrity and keep our promises. We need to be authentic in word, deed and action.
Be truly present with your partner! Be available! Make time for each other and you will see, the love will flow!

Hope you found one or the other inspiration in my words and feel entitled and empowered to go out there, and just try it again!! Wish you lasting love, understanding and open sharing space for your future relations!
Love and Blessings!
Edith

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